Relationship between ex-spouses

Unfortunately, in our country, according to statistics, there is a considerable number of divorces that occur for various reasons, sometimes because of haste, but more often when love supposedly has passed, and the spouses decided not to wag each other’s nerves anymore. In most cases, such families already have common children. But is it necessary to maintain relations with ex-husbands after the divorce proceedings?

First of all, in any case, do not show that you want to return something, even if it really is, this will only show your weakness. But admiring and using it as a familiar thing is also not worth it. If you were happy with him, it means that he is worth now. But still, the former means really the former. He can remain present only as the father of your common children..

Of course, you can read a book on how to get your ex-husband back if you’re still not sure if you want to be without him. And only then make a decision on the expediency of further relations.

When the most unpleasant part — the divorce process and being in court are behind — you need to take a deep breath and erase this person from your life. Next, you should radically change yourself, so as not to step on the same or similar rake, to love yourself.

But it’s easy to change your life without your ex if you didn’t have time to acquire a common child, or he doesn’t claim to be an “exemplary daddy”. Otherwise, it is nonsense to forbid the child to be seen as a natural father, here you will not be able to do anything, and sometimes you will have to see an echo of your past. But at the moments of these meetings, always show your best side, wipe his nose, proving that you are a strong woman and deserve better..

In the modern world, apart from the child, ex-spouses can be connected by one more thing — business. But if this business is not an enterprise that cannot be divided in any way, run away. Nothing good will come of even a business relationship with an ex..

Don’t try to be friends with your ex-husbands either. This European fashion, possibly abroad, is considered the ideal post-divorce option, but not in our case..

Everything that was in the past — leave there, and take it for granted. It is a waste of time to channel your personal time to socialize with your ex, aside from asking about your children. After all, you can spend it on yourself, your beloved, in search of a new, more worthy half. Carry out a “cleaning operation” in your soul, comparable to cleaning the closet: everything unnecessary is in the trash can, and there is nothing to put off here for later. So, dear ladies, divorce is not a reason to grieve and bury yourself in yourself. On the contrary, this is a second wind, an opportunity to start life from scratch..